Are We Blamed For Death? More On Life After Death From ‘Afterlife Phil G
Question to Afterlife Phil G, this one from England: “My Mum died when I was young. I was living with my Nanna at the time. I can smell her in my house. I would like to know is she is ok and that she doesn’t blame me, that she is okay, at peace, and watching over us.”
Writes another [USA] “Weeks before my husband died (unexpectedly), a thought came in my head that he was going to die of a heart attack. Not long after this he died in his sleep (heart). Should I have taken this as a warning? Am I to blame? I need to know he forgives me. I know visits are possible. Should I have used this ‘whisper’ to save him?
From Phil: “When someone passes away, they do not judge us or think bad of us. So you need to stop thinking those things, and let that go. They accept us as we are, and accept what happened. They move to a ‘higher’ level of thinking, and can see beyond our narrow view of things. A bit like, you may be looking after a child, and teaching them to ride a bike, and they fall off, and they think you’re horrible for letting them get hurt, but from our perspective, we know we’re trying to help them learn to do this by themselves, and as much as it seems wrong at the time, we know in the long run it’s okay. This is often the feeling I get in ‘readings’ when someone feels guilt.
Whenever I write an article or reply along these lines, there’s any number of people who may laugh at my words, but I want YOU to be the judge, to be the proof. You don’t need to take my word for it. On my web site I share much free information about contacting the afterlife. I have coached many in my simple technique, of recognizing the signs of contact from family in the Afterlife, and it is from this perspective that I help people to go a step further and ASK or share their concerns of guilt or blame, with the person they miss on ‘the other side’ and ask for verification to confirm they are not imagining it.
You see, you MAY say I wouldn’t know, but you can’t say that about yourself. You don’t have to write to me, or see a psychic. Follow my advice on the web (philg.net.au). Once you’ve started understanding the contact you’re already having with family and friends in the afterlife, then you can move on. You just ASK them your concerns.
For the two questions noted earlier, this is my advice: Tell them what’s on your mind. In your head, or out loud. During ‘CoffeeTime’ (see my video on YouTube – under ‘Afterlife Phil G’), or when you’re relaxed and almost asleep, talk to them. Share your feelings and concerns. For the lady who lost her mother, talk to her about how you feel. What you remember. You were so young, I am sure there will be a flood of emotions. For the lady who lost her husband so unfairly, talk to him about your premonition.
It will probably be emotional. That’s fine. Let it happen. Forget about the world for a few minutes, and stay in the moment. When we’re busy, rushed, thinking of too many things, we don’t hear from the other side, we can’t feel it. Don’t worry about if it’s real, or imagined, just let it flow.
You will discover, if not immediately, certainly gradually as you stay ‘connected’, that random images, words, feelings, or thoughts pop into your mind in between your own thoughts. Unexpectedly, from no-where. Don’t stop them or analyse them. Don’t think about what they mean. Just let those thoughts in. If it makes sense, just go with the flow. Once you start doing this, it becomes easy. Like having a conversation with a friend that starts talking about cars and ends up talking about boating, and you don’t really know how you changed the subject.
Those thoughts, images, words, feelings that seemed to randomly pop into your head are from the person you want to connect with in the Afterlife. You can prove it (much information on my web site to help you). The important thing here is to accept things, even if you’re not sure or skeptical. In your cases, you will feel, I am sure, an enormous weight lifted off your shoulders. You will feel the forgiveness or ‘non-blame’ shining through from somewhere you can feel, but can’t see. Follow my advice to confirm that feeling is real.
In the film “Ghost, Demi Moore’s character agonizes over the death of her friend, played by Patrick Swayze. Patrick still wants to be part of her life, and actually IS, to help her, protect her, and comfort her, but he struggles because she expects too much. It’s a silly random remark that makes her believe – one she nearly missed out on hearing because of her scepticism. As the film shows, certainly some psychics are not genuine, but there are some who just want to help, to help you understand that loved ones who have crossed over are with you. Now. Beside you. Anytime they need to be or you want them to be. And whatever happened in the past, share the words you want to share. They can hear you, and you will be able to ‘hear’ them, and verify it, yourself. – Phil G
Related posts:
- I Sense Him Near – But How Do I Get Clear Messages? Phil G On Life After Death Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag to help Lisa from...
- Phil G’s Simple Approach To Contacting The Afterlife Recently I received an email from Milwaukee, USA saying when...
- Do We Have Emotional Needs When We Cross Over? From Cincinnati, a reader asks: Is it possible that those...
- Spirit Contact: How To Find A Genuine Medium? I thought it about time I share my thoughts, to...
- Do You Believe In Life After Death? "Death comes as the End", this is the most famous...
Related posts brought to you by Yet Another Related Posts Plugin.

Leave a Reply