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Being able to communicate openly is the key to a lasting and happy relationship. But in so many cases it is difficult or even impossible to persuade a man to talk about their feelings, fears and needs. For women this seems very easy to do but men are a different story. If you have this problem and are unable to get the information you need from your partner, it’s possible you need to try some new ideas.

When is most responsive?

It’s best to approach when you are already engaged in conversation instead of interrupting something else that is going on. Mostly, conversations happen during a meal, in bed or while you are doing something together. These are great opportunities to get him to open up.

Timing is crucial

If he just walked in after a long, hard day at work, unless it’s a dire emergency, it’s probably a good idea to let him have some space to unwind before you start “grilling,” “probing” or “digging” for information.

Provide a personal example

For him to reveal, you’ve got to be revealing. Feel free to share your past experiences (though I wouldn’t suggest talking about your past relationships)…your favorite music or movies…your hopes and dreams…your fears or fantasies. After a while, he’ll do the same with you.

Always look ahead

When you choose a topic to open up yourself, make sure it is not something that you had discussed many times before. This might cause him to loose patience and will eventually hurt your cause.

Be careful with your response

You don’t want to get your partner to shut down just because of a cynical remark. Be sensitive to what they are saying and let them fully express their ideas before responding. No matter what his ideas are – let them say it and feel comfortable doing so.

Stay attentive

Now that he’s talking, just listen. Don’t turn on the television or answer a phone call when he is opening up. Instead of interrupting or interjecting, give him a chance to put things in his own words. It can be hard to keep your mouth shut, sometimes. But being a good listener speaks volumes.

With all my heart, I wish you the love, light and happiness you deserve.

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