Things I’ve Learned from Women Who’ve Dumped Me
OK, I’ll admit it, I’ve been dumped several times. More than I’d like to admit. And while it hurt quite a bit each time, I have to say that I have learned a lot from the experiences. So here are those I’ve learned from women who’ve dumped me.
1. It takes two
Often with the pain and heartbreak of a break up, it is easy to blame someone else but nto yourself. However the truth is that if the relationship wasn’t working, you were part of the problem too. Take a look at what went wrong so that you can use the lessons for your next relationship.
2. Give women their personal space
Women like to cuddle and snuggle and they may seem to be always around, but they need their personal space as well. We men have a tendency to be possessive, we want to keep our women close and know where they’re going and what they’re doing. If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes even stronger. However trust is a key in any relationship. When you invade her personal space, you give her a reason to think that you don’t trust her. Your girlfriend can live up to your fears and this can easily lead to the end of your relationship.
3. You get stronger
When you wake up in the morning and you feel like crap, you may think that you will never get over the break up. Not only does time heal the pain, but it makes you a stronger person. Frederick Nietzsche said, “that which doesn’t kill me only makes me stronger.” That applies here too.
4. Maybe it wasn’t meant to be
Accepting that a relationship wasn’t meant to be is a key factor in getting over it. If you were planning your relationship, considering marriage and children, and then your girlfriend dumped you, consider it a as a relief. It better ended sooner than later when the stakes are much higher.
5. You have to make things happen
Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is that you can’t control what happened, but you can control how you react to what happened. If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to make them happen. That means getting back to normal life. Go out, meet new women. Have some fun. Eventually, you will find another relationship. And if you have followed the advice in this article about things I’ve learned from women who’ve dumped me, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.
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