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Your First Contact With Russian Women Online And All Your Hopes

Written by Mark De Schutter on Sep 26th, 2009 | Filed under: Culture

Experiencing your first contact with Russian women online can feel a bit awkward and uncomfortable for both of you. Chances are that neither you or the woman you are chatting with have a great deal of experience with a cold contact from across the ocean. It’s Okay. Relax and follow a few simple ideas in order to get the most from your initial contact so that there can be many more to subsequently follow.

You are looking for a Russian woman because you are looking for someone that fits a particular profile. There is nothing wrong with that. Over 80% of long term relationships these days start online and most are done through some sort of cold contact. Don’t let your imagination run wild at the sight of her photo.

You’re just talking to her. Sure, there is an underlying motivation for both of you. You want to find a woman and she wants to find someone just like you. But once you remove the pressure of these intentions, you can relax and enjoy the contact a lot more. It’s like a little adventure that you’re having through your computer.

Sometimes when we initiate first contact with Russian women online, we forget all the questions we had. Write some questions down. Try to make them questions that are not answered well with a yes or a no, but questions that encourage her to talk freely. She is most likely just as nervous as you are. If you get into a great conversation before you make it through all of your questions, put the remaining questions aside for next time.

Asking her a lot of questions that prod answers that reveal something about herself is a fun way to go about it. If you can get her to chat about herself, her thoughts and feelings, and her viewpoints you have the golden opportunity to come across like someone who is genuinely interested in her feelings just as you have the opportunity to learn all about who she really is.

Developing these relationships take some time. You can’t just jump into a ready made relationship online. This is a common mistake that many men make when they have their first contact with Russian women online. Many men expect that she will be ready and willing to start a serious relationship with you. Yes, it happens instantaneously for some, but most men and women need some time to develop a relationship that they are comfortable with.

Remember that even an online relationship takes a little time to get going. You can’t expect either of you to be ready to leap into a pretend relationship if you’re going after something a little deeper. Give it a little time. Talk often even if the conversations are short. It’s better for both of you to feel as though you want to talk more than wait until one of you simply can’t wait to get offline.

It’s not easy for either of you to be completely honest until you feel comfortable. Checking in with her from time to time and asking her about her feelings is a good way to let her know that you are not only concerned for her feelings, but that you are man enough to handle it if she isn’t comfortable.

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